During my first attempt at this documentary I made it through about
forty minutes, finally too uncomfortable with the sleazy sort of free
for all of social misfits, most of whom appeared to be semi-literate.
Their living conditions were appalling, filthy and unsavory like the
family in “The Texas Chainsaw Massacre” or “Deliverance.” I knew of
course that the documentary was about incest, but I had imagined that it
would be a complicated and wrenching story about a family’s long and
difficult journey to enlightenment and justice: that it would consider
incest as a social problem and offer some kind of coherent reaction to
this atrocity. Instead, the documentary presented a family of visibly
unwell, both physically and mentally, forty or fifty-something people,
accusing not only the bizarre lunatic patriarch of the family of incest,
but also each other. Furthermore, the only male in the large group
(besides the ludicrous, cud-chewing Melvin) asked two of his half
sisters to marry him, and then expounded on why he thought that there
was nothing wrong with loving your sisters. The documentary played into
every sad stereotype about small towns wherein everyone is related to
everyone else, presenting us with a freak show rather than a serious
consideration of this very serious issue. This is why I initially
refused to continue watching – I felt exploited, I felt like a voyeur.
I could not imagine what to make out of this documentary that first time
around. But I eventually returned because I wanted to see how the
director finally set the material up as a social critique. Where would
the fault lie? With society? I should have known better. The director,
who during the documentary pretends that his purpose was to bring Melvin
to justice or see him dead and help his family heal, intersperses the
odd carnevalesque family scenes with clips of himself taking part in a
series of be-sequined tv dancing contests, he and his partner flying
through the air in back handsprings. We even saw a video of his wedding,
with his bride back flipping her way down the aisle. If people don’t
get us, the director notes defensively, that’s okay.
No, it's not really okay if people don't get you. The documentary is
supposed to be about incest. We didn't tune in to form an opinion on the
director’s wedding – who cares? So, one assumes, the comment applies to
the family in general – the film is supposed to be about them, after
all. And if the director doesn't care if we get them, why does he want
us to watch them?
More fundamental, in addition to being asked to rely upon this wannabe
tv entertainer for a serious exposé on incest, we are asked to believe
that the charges being flung around by the family members are true,
without any evidence whatsoever. As a viewer I have no reason either to
believe or disbelieve that these wildly gesticulating very large people
were the victims of the grotesque Melvin. Why not? But, on the other
hand, why should I believe it? Much later in the film we learn that
Melvin was in fact convicted of incest and served eight years (which
raises the question of why the director wanted to bring Melvin to
justice when society had already exacted its justice – did he think that
Melvin should have served longer? If so, he doesn’t tell us that). So
it appears that the incest story must have been true. But a murder
charge is also flung about, without a shred of evidence. The children
claim to have witnessed Melvin pound a nurse on the head with an
andiron. But why was the case never brought to trial if a group of about
eight witnesses saw the old bugger beating a woman to death in the
living room? The film is filled with frustrating innuendo and no
conclusions, no guidance as to what we are meant to understand.
Most frustrating of all, we are told that one of the many sisters, fed
up with forced sex with Melvin, turned him in to the police. The police
showed up, questioned everyone, went to their school, questioned,
questioned, and the children all denied the charges. The police,
therefore, had no case. Many years later, several of the girls
corroborated the story, and this time he was flung in the slammer. But
what are we meant to understand? Is this a critique of the police? If
so, how? Should they have pressed forward without any witnesses? If so,
the director does not tell us this.
Truly disturbing are the accusations of one of the sisters, this one
with terribly deformed legs (we are shown many detailed pictures of the
problem), accusing the now wheel-chair bound Melvin of recently having
paid her a dollar to have sex with him. This is clearly a fantasy, given
that Melvin is immobile. Or, if it is true, why did she comply? It
isn’t as if he could have forced her. Once again, what are we to
understand? Equally stomach turning is the shot of the group of large
middle-aged women visiting Melvin in his rest home. They dash down the
hall, squealing with excitement to see him. And these are the women upon
whom he perpetrating decades of sexual abuse? Why are they visiting
him, telling him how good it is to see him?
Bizarre showcase for the handspringing director, this documentary does a
disservice to efforts to bring incest to the light of day. Without any
context for understanding the visible instability of this family – are
they insane because of the incest, or did they cook up the incest
because they are insane – we cannot reasonably be expected to separate
truth from fantasy.
Honestly i cannot read the rest of whatever it is you are trying to say. The reason these people are the way they are and live the way they live is because of how horrible thier lives were! I do not think you should judge them or say there is not any proof .. i think it was shocking and disturbing and real! Maybe you should stick to something more upper class that has to do with incest! Also when people are sexually abused they also have a twisted love and almost a love hate relationship for that person! When real love and kindness is not in your life as a child and the only form of attention you recieve is by being raped or molested you begin to think its not right but in a way feel like its love! Who cares if they are over weight. Thats the least of their problems!
ReplyDeleteI just watch it... It is a horrible story, but, the scene at the hospital made me question the credibility of the story. Some of the women embraced him and expressed their love for him...Really?...this guy, who was supposed to have abused them all?... The man who served 8 years in jail for abusing them and then was allowed contact with them afterwards?.... The closing scenes at his graveside were almost laughable...
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